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孩子成績上不去?是否存在這些問題?

2018-10-01 小霸總

??孩子的學習,成了家長最關心的事情,孩子成績差、學習馬虎是困擾家長的大問題。大部分的家長看孩子學習不好,幾乎都會讓孩子努力學習,不會去分析孩子成績差的原因是什么?關鍵又在哪里?在現實中,家長教育問題上不自覺的錯誤,可能導致孩子多種心理問題,直接影響孩子學習效果。那,家長教育孩子問題上,應該注意哪些小細節呢?

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??一、常詢問孩子在班級的名次

??家長不能以每次考試成績的排名來肯定或否定孩子,對于一個不可能得第一的孩子反復強調名次,勢必使孩子陷于自卑。而孩子的自我否定,不僅會使其學習成績進一步下降,孩子未來的整體發展都會受到妨礙。

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??二、常指責孩子的失敗

??比如有兩個孩子的語文考試不及格,家長甲對孩子說:媽媽和爸爸都很關心你的語文成績,我相信這次考試還沒有反映出你的水平,你要加油呀,孩子!家長乙對孩子說:你怎么這么笨!這么簡單的題目都不會做,怎么考大學?家長甲傳達的是關心和愛護,家長乙引發的卻是焦慮和憎恨,前者能激發孩子進一步學習的積極性,注重于問題的解決;后者則會打擊孩子的學習積極性和自信心。孩子通常都會實踐父母和教師對他們的期望,給孩子摧毀性的預言則會造成傷害。

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??三、常阻止孩子玩耍而命其回到書桌前

??玩是孩子的天性,一味地阻止,迫使其,而且學之不盡,孩子必然會產生厭煩心理。成功的教育是變要我學我要學,即將外在動機轉化為內在動機,充分調動孩子的學習積極性。而不恰當的教育,則只會使孩子原本存在的學習興趣也沒有了。

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??四、在生活、學習中包辦太多

??在生活、學習中包辦太多,使孩子未養成良好的學習習慣。

??對于學習馬虎,成績不好的孩子,家長應注意以下幾方面:

??家長必須要有耐心,情緒穩定

??因為孩子過去的基礎較差,想要孩子一下子把學習搞好是不現實的,也是不可能的。因此,做父母的千萬不能操之過急,更不能因為孩子學習不好而指責孩子。

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??父母應該和孩子進行誠懇溝通

??交談時,父母應該對孩子抱著真誠關心和寬容體諒的態度,表示理解孩子在學習上遇到困難或挫折是難免的。同時,父母還可以談自己過去學習成功或失敗的經驗教訓,給孩子以必要的信心和勇氣。

??在此基礎上,再從以下幾個方面了解孩子的情況:

??①在學習上是否盡了全力?

??②你是否認為自己無法搞好學習?

??③你需要什么幫助嗎?

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??了解孩子學習上的問題所在

??應向孩子的老師、同學或朋友了解孩子學習上的問題所在:

??①孩子上課是否用心?作業是否認真?能否按時完成?

??②孩子平時喜歡與哪些人在一起玩?有沒有受到什么消極影響?

??③孩子的特長是什么?興趣是什么?能否根據孩子的興趣和特長采取一些特別的措施,讓孩子恢復自信,培養其成功感。

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